In total I wrote down 13 aspects, where I improved myself or I broadened my perspective of the world. In this article I want to share 7 of my “Lessons learned”. At the end I will answer a commonly asked question. Did I return as a different person?
Why should you read this? Would it not be more wise to make your own lessons?
Dear reader, you are right. The things that I’ve learned on this 1 year journey are a first hand experience. If I tell you about the lessons I learned you will probably understand what I mean but it won’t be your experience then. Nevertheless I want to share the 7 Lessons as short as possible to give you an idea why a journey to unknown places might be the right thing for you to do. Hopefully it will inspire you to start your own project to break out of the comfort zone and grow. Let’s get started:
- Things will become easier with repetition: Like any task which requires a certain amount of effort and will power, cycling will become easier and easier with every day. In the beginning I had major concerns because it seemed to be so tough with the load on the bicycle. But day by day I got used to the discomfort until it felt quite comfortable. If you are in a difficult situation, don’t give up, and try to continue with steps, small enough that you can manage them.
- We have more in common than you think. Other cultures seem to be so different at first glance. When I entered Iran for example, I felt this differentness of the Iranian culture, which is dominated by Islam. And India seems to be a compete different world. But the longer I was exposed to those cultural differences, the more I could see what all of us, every human being has in common. We want to live a peaceful and happy life. We want to have a good time with family and friends. I was lucky being invited to many families, this is where I felt the most connected to the people.
- The world is less dangerous than media proclaims. Switch on your TV and see: Shootings, bomb attacks, war. Or alternatively: Sell your TV, go out and make your own picture of the world. While I was still fearing the risks in the beginning of the journey, I became more and more relaxed trusting people that I meet for the first time. “This is naive” you might think? In my opinion, if you give trust, you will receive trust. People are in general friendly. I also based my decisions more and more on my intuition.
- Patience makes many things easier. “I need to reach this city today!” “Why do I have to wait so long for this document?” Thoughts like these can result in unnecessary stress. In my experience, “stress” or “waiting” is just an idea, common in our western society. An idea made up in the mind. Time is passing always in the same speed, it is YOU categorizing your time in “enjoyable” and “not enjoyable”. Things will happen as they are supposed to happen. If you need to “wait” somewhere it is first of all your choice to wait there. You could either go, accept the situation as it is, or even enjoy the situation. Observe people, observe your breath, enjoy doing nothing. Enjoy pedaling on the endless straight road by singing a song which you came up with.
- Nothing in this world is “normal”. “Do you also have a normal toilet?” may be a question of a westerner in Iran or an Iranian in Germany. What is considered “normal” by one group of people might be “abnormal” for the other group. European “sit- toilets” vs. eastern “squat- toilets, using toilet paper vs. using water, sleeping on the ground vs. sleeping in a bed. But it is not only about the physical world. The way people talk to each other, the way they behave, the way they drive their cars might be normal or abnormal, depending on the perspective, depending on YOU! Of course it can be confusing if you ask an an Indian something and he replies by shaking his head sideways. Was it a “yes” or a “no”? But this is one of the things that makes travelling so much fun.
- Anyone dies. After one year usage, my bicycle looks now more “mature” than at the beginning. Sooner or later it will rust, break, “die”. And so we will die some day – yes – also YOU! Everything that exists will not exist at some point. But I am not depressed about this thought, but see it as an opportunity to give the best and enjoy every moment. Did you ever see a depressed cat, bird or dog? It seems that they are not (although I am not sure about dogs sometimes^^). The human mind with its incredible abilities is also able to worry about things that have not even happened yet. On this trip I learned to appreciate the current moment. Cycling through a good smelling field, having rain after long time of dryness, watching birds, someone smiling at me, sleeping under stars. Simple things can be wonderful if you pay enough attention.
- You are responsible for your happiness. Smile! Really, are you smiling now? If you read this, smile and hold it for a few seconds. Smiling is a choice. Every time I took a selfie with someone I got reminded to smile. A while ago I had times where I didn’t smile on pictures because I thought my smile would not look good. Never miss a chance to smile. It will affect the people surrounding you and of course it will affect your mood. When I used to cycle up steep hills I trained myself to smile and guess what happened.. This tedious activity became much more enjoyable. Smiling can be a habit like anything else. But I think what helped me also was to receive the happiness from people all over the world. Let’s help each other to be happy!
Did I return as a different person?
Many people asked me whether I think I completely changed my personality throughout this trip. And in fact some things definitely changed.
Looking back, I had this huge challenge ahead, cycling from Germany to India. I was not very confident if I would even make it half way, but I was committed not to give up easily. I expected days where I think “I want to QUIT right now!”, and these days came, although rarely. Having mastered this challenge made me feel much more capable of reaching a big goal and working for it day by day.
The experiences in 13 different countries not only showed me that the world is a much better place than expected, but it also teached me how to solve problems on my own. Most of the time there will be people to help you along the way, turning a difficult situation into a great memory.
I am much more enthousiastic than I was before. I started to see more opportunities in life. Business ideas, projects, creative thoughts. I am more likely to say “YES” to an opportunity, although I cannot see the outcome which might result.
My friends and family said that I changed, but they still see the person that they know as me. In general I would say that I am still the same person, with a spectrum of additional skills, ideas, behaviours. I could improve my strengths and lose some weaknesses. And in general this trip made me a much happier person, thanks to all the amazing people I met along the way.
And of course I changed my standard, how I want to live. Every culture has a few aspects that I liked a lot and I want to implement in my life. The overwhelming friendliness like in eastern european countries. The generous attitude of the iranians, inviting people for tea like turkish people, the pretty living rooms in Oman with carpet and cushion, turkish breakfast with loads of leafy greens and olives, delicious Indian daal and rice, appreciating little things like the children in Samparc school and more..
Overall this one year will remain unforgettable and a great experience. Thank you for following this blog. Please leave a comment if you have any questions or for feedback.
Special thank you to my father, who accompanied me on the first kilometers and the last few days back home. And YES, I’ve cut the dreadlocks^^
Am I planning a similar trip like this for the future?
If I will do another cycling trip, I think I would limit it to a maximum of one month and I also would look for someone to accompany me. I think about destinations like Lithuania, Stockholm, Prague, Spain, Maroc. Let’s see what the future brings. Sooner or later, I will be back to search for “the finest road“.
– Lewin
June 12, 2019
Overview about Galleries of the entire trip, sorted by countries:
List of all blogposts published:
- [En] Welcome post
- [De] Die Vorbereitungsphase
- [De] Start der Tour
- [De] Die ersten Tage
- [En] Way to Vienna [1/2]
- [En] Way to Vienna [2/2]
- [De] Mein Gefährt(e)
- [De] Wien
- [De] Wien – Budapest
- [En] Budapest
- [De] Budapest – Novi Sad
- [En] Novi Sad
- [De] Belgrad [1/2]
- [De] Belgrad [2/2]
- [De] Belgrad – Niš
- [En] Niš
- [En] Niš – Sofia
- [De] Sofia
- [De] Sofia – Greece
- [En] Thessaloniki
- [De] Thessaloniki – Athens
- [En] Crete
- [En] Low budget: sleeping
- [En] Karpathos
- [En] Rhodos
- [En] Fethiye, Turkey
- [En] Fethiye – Antalya [1/2]
- [En] Fethiye – Antalya [2/2]
- [En] Antalya
- [En] Antalya – Kappadokia [1/2]
- [En] Antalya – Kappadokia [2/2]
- [En] Kappadokia – Erzurum
- [En] Erzurum
- [En] Erzurum – Tiflis [1/2]
- [En] Erzurum – Tiflis [2/2]
- [En] Azerbaijan
- [En] Iran – The north
- [En] 10 odd things about Iran
- [En] Tehran – Shiraz [1/3]
- [En] Tehran – Shiraz [2/3]
- [En] Tehran – Shiraz [3/3]
- [En] Shiraz – Persian Gulf [1/2]
- [En] Shiraz – Persian Gulf [2/2]
- [En] Dubai
- [En] Oman
- [En] Mumbai
- [En] Mumbai – Goa
- [En] Goa
- [En] Goa – Hampi
- [En] THE END
- [En] Social project: SAMPARC School
- [En] 7 Lessons learned